Choose kindness when faced with drama

Since school has started I’ve been able to catch up with my friends and finally get back into my routine. But with routine and school somewhat under control, there seems to be drama trickling in. 

No matter where you go in life or how old you get, drama always seems to follow. Recently, I have talked with many friends who are experiencing issues with some of their friends. I feel that if a handful of my friends are experiencing it you might be, too. Seeing this common thread, I have decided to comment the best thing people can do in this kind of situation. 

I recognize the stress or even annoyance people might be put under with having to deal with other people’s drama or even their own drama. It can be frustrating not knowing what to do for your friend or for yourself. But the best thing you can do for yourself and for your friends is to show kindness.

I know this seems like a really simple fix or maybe something that is too easy. The answer needs to be more soulful or something. There is a reason we are taught at such a young age about certain core values. Throughout our lives we will be able to use these core values, especially kindness.

Everyone deserves kindness, even if you don’t agree with them on something. You might not even like the person. There really isn’t a point in being rude or petty to them. 

Simply because you disagree or they might be rude to you doesn’t mean we have the right to be mean to other people. 

Whether your friend is complaining about the same person they always do or if you are getting annoyed with someone, show them kindness. Maybe your boss is stressing you out or someone in your club/sport isn’t holding up to their duties, show them kindness. You always hear people say, “you don’t know what other people are going through”. It’s said because it’s true. You never truly know how much stress and problems people are carrying on their shoulders. So show them kindness. 

This week I challenge you to express kindness in difficult situations. Whether it is during practice, in class or maybe you are having a conversation with someone you don’t really care for. It might be difficult but the next time someone gets on your nerves put a smile on your face and demonstrate kindness. 

You might not know what is going on in their life, and a little act of kindness might help brighten their day.